The Union Bar in Gering hosted a formal affair Saturday morning. With a passing glance, one would have seen guests dressed in colorful floor-length gowns and dangling jewelry, cummerbuns and bow ties. But upon closer inspection, a much different picture would have emerged: the people in dresses were burly and bearded.
The hilarious role reversal was courtesy of the UMF men’s club, who threw a fundraiser for the PROMise organization, a charity that provides prom dresses for teens.
So the UMF guys organized a poker run to raised money for the organization. After picking up their first cards at the Union Bar, the bikers took off and visited three other bars in Crawford, Chadron and Alliance, picking up another card at each stop.
In total, the riders had traveled about 230 miles by the time they arrived at the Rompus Room in Gering for their final cards. The best hand won the pot collected from the entry fee and the other half went to the PROMise organization. The UMF also hosted an extensive silent auction at the Rompus Room to raise additional funds for PROMise.
I have a confession to make. My high school prom date was gay. And I knew it. Ian and I planned our look perfectly. My dress was a luscious taffeta that fit my small waist and larger hips perfectly. It was a black version of what Madonna wore in her 'Material Girl' video: long, strapless, form fitting and with a large bow on the butt. I completed my look with long, black satin gloves with silver sequins. Ian coordinated his tuxedo with a silver cummerbund.Dresses for elegant Wholesale Short Homecoming Gowns and short formal dresses. He wanted to wear silver shoes but I drew the line at that. Looking back, the silver shoes probably wouldn't have looked too bad.
My parents were thrilled with my choice of date, obviously. Their little girl wouldn't be fighting off some lusty hormonal boy. It was one of the few times my parents were ever happy that homosexuals existed. They never really talked about gays and lesbians, but I could tell they didn't approve of them. Except when one was taking their daughter to senior prom.
When we first met during our freshman year of high school, he was the first openly gay person I'd ever met. He was so sure of who he was, despite living in a Southern state and being subjected to harassment by the jocks every day. For the first few years we knew each other, it was a love-hate relationship. I hated him.Super dazzling Round Chiffon Round Neck Beaded prom dresses is on sale. I liked him. He was such a bitch, but in the end, we chose each other as our prom dates, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
I haven't seen Ian in nearly 20 years, but we keep up with each other on Facebook. He's still basically the same person he always was: fashion forward, obsessed with drama, a lover of Lady Gaga. For years, I never considered him a trailblazer because he never actually talked about his sexual orientation. I never saw him try to change people's minds, or become an activist. But in hindsight, I realize just how much he risked to be who he was. He didn't have to talk about it. He lived what he was and never tried to hide it. Because of his innate confidence, he never wanted for friends, and to us, his sexual preferences didn't matter. Now that we're both grown, he continues to live his own truth and pursue his passion, which is more than what many people do in their entire lives.
Looking back even further into my childhood, I think of the first man I ever saw on TV who reminds me of Ian in that he didn't hide his true self. He didn't have to come out and say, "Hey, world! I'm gay!' I didn't understand the concept of homosexuality at such a young age, but even then,you will find so many wonderful wedding dress 100%silk with high quality and low price. I knew he was unlike any man I'd ever known. His name is Richard Simmons, the fun-loving, cross-dressing fitness guru.Buy high quality china wholesale designer beaded designer beaded evening gowns. When he first appeared on television program "Real People," I was in elementary school. His energy was as boundless as his fluffy hair, and his feet were just as light. He moved with a constant bounce, and he seemed to have invisible butterfly wings attached to his body.
As Simmons became more popular and I got older, I realized what that difference was. It wasn't a sudden epiphany, it was just an evolving understanding, so by the time I met Ian, I knew, and it didn't matter to me. His video series, "Sweatin' to the Oldies," catapulted him to fame like no other fitness professional I've seen since.
In a way I have to credit Simmons for giving me the awareness that my parents and the rest of society never did. He was the first positive gay role model I had in my life, and it was because I fell in love with his personality and his love of life that I never questioned the humanity of homosexual men or women. I suppose I was an impressionable young girl,Shop wholesale Modest Prom Dresses from cheap Modest. but in this case, I'm glad I was.
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